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If you are searching for a friend or companion only through the personal ads, start with profiles that state this specifically in their profile, which you will find many. In discussing profiles of those who are not looking for a serious relationship, you may find the following phrases used: ‘want to have a good time’,’ not looking for a relationship’ and ‘not willing to give my heart away’, ‘just want to spend some time with you’ or ‘seeking another with a great listening ear’. There are various words used expressing friendship, companionship and those just looking to date. Use these expressions and words to help you sort through the personal ads narrowing your decision among the many people listed.
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Sports and hobbies are also excellent dating opportunities. Are you a member of a club? Invite your next date to a club activity. Mountain biking, hiking, in-line skating, tennis, or any joint hobby can be excellent first date material. They provide an activity that you both have a common interest in. Also, there is no better way to bring out the dark side of people than competitive sports. Wouldn’t you like to see that up front? You can also impress your date with your skill, or get a few pointers from him or her.
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Describing the entire language here is beyond the scope of this newsletter, but allow me to give a picture of it here. Since women are designed to be attracted to SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE, they will be observing your behavior to see if it's CONGRUENT and CONSISTENT with that of a man who TRULY HAS SUPERIOR INTRINSIC VALUE.
So let's say for example, guy ONE goes to a busy club and at first just watches for 15 minutes and does not interact with anyone and basically looks pretty serious. And then he decides to go out on the dance floor and aggressively bumps and grinds with a few girls he doesn't know. He asks one of them some question like if they always come there. They nod and go away and before he knows it, they are talking to some other guy. Then he goes back to watching. Now, let's say you saw another guy come in, who seemed a lot more relaxed, a good mood, he teases some girls about their wacky outfits, and as they laugh he winks, walks away and gets himself a drink. On the way there, he bumps into a couple of girls and tells them jokingly to stop feeling him up, and at the bar he casually starts talking to some girls beside him about some latest gossip about JLo and Ben Affleck. Pretty soon, the original girls he met (who he has actually forgotten about since he planned to actually chat it up with ALL the girls there and so they were not the main thing on his mind) are walking by, they see him with these other girls and make eye contact anyway. |
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Anyway we then moved onto a nearby club and she had become rather drunk (think Irishman in a Guinness factory on St Patrick's day) and so I offered to walk her to a taxi, to which she agreed, and on to way out I put my arm round her and her then moved to hold my hand, which was nice.
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